The fact is Mr.Sensitive, that Feldman has tried to help that man for years and it doesn't seem to be doing any good. You may have mis-understood me. I'm always there to help any friend of mine, but when after YEARS, it doesn't seem to be working, you have to try something else. Ultimately, Haim has to be the one to get his sorry act together. It's NOT Feldman's responsibility to stay after him. Haim's a grown man that needs PROFESSIONAL help. People like that will drag you to the bottom with them if you're not careful. Like I said, you tell Haim to seek professional help, or you end the friendship. That might shake his foundation enough to finally get serious about his problems. That IS being a true friend. Give em' a hard enough kick in the ass & maybe they'll sraighten up. You can't keep pettin' folks & expect it to change things. If that's enough for em', then great. But some folks you've got to shove their face in it to make them wake the hell up before they desroy themselves & others around them. That's not the only solution for everything, but in THIS case it is, & maybe the man will love HIMSELF enough to save his OWN life. Thank you & goodnight!!!! "Flies & the un-dead go together like bullets n' guns"----The Lost Boys.